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This image is of a little flower girl at a wedding looking directly into the camera, the expression on her face is one of been not happy

Should we invite kids to our wedding?

This is one question that every bride and groom to be should ask themselves as they plan their wedding and create their guest list. 

Most couples already have friends and family members who have children so this can be a tough decision. Children have a tendency to get bored and fussy quite easily, something that can turn your wedding into a noisy affair.  

If you do decide that you want to include children in your big celebration, you’ll want to make sure that they’re happy and entertained at all times. 

Here are a few fun ideas for keeping those little bodies busy during your wedding.

Create an epic kids table

Setting up a few kids tables with various activities is one of the best ways to keep smaller guests busy for hours, especially during the speeches. Add games, puzzles, activity and coloring books to the tables so that the kids can choose something that appeals to them. You could also add a few goodie bags to the table that contain treats, bubbles or a small toy.

this image shows a bride and groom holding two baby twin girls who are both smiling and laughing
this image shows a little boy having fun with his dad at a wedding

Include them in the wedding activities

Children really enjoy helping out and being a part of the day’s activities so give them an important job to do such as handing out pamphlets. If they feel like they’re helping out, they won’t get a chance to be bored. Another cute idea is to give each child a disposable camera so they can snap some photos on the day.

Let them spend time outdoors

If the weather is warm on the day, set up a few outdoor games such as Jenga or activities such as hula-hoops. If the children are a little older, you can also set up a crafts table that they can use to create props for a photo booth or a wedding memento for their parents.

this image shows a page boy peaking at the camera behind the bride and groom
this image show 3 young children having a quick snack break eating crisp at a wedding

Set up a kids room

If you want to keep children entertained and away from the main festivities, set up a cool kids room or cave that contains beanbags, tables, movies and activities that they can enjoy

What does Nicholas think?

Personally I love it when kids are at the weddings I photograph. They make the day  even more special and magical in so many ways!

I hope these tips help you keep your little cherubs entertained.

Official photograph of wedding photographer Nicholas Teal
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